Don’t be petty.
It’s probably the worst trait a man can have.
Don’t count the times you’ve paid for meals. Don’t also keep track of things you’ve done for your significant other.
I used to hate it when an exer and I would argue and they would bring up all the things they have done, for me.
First of all, at the time when the act was taking place, they were willing to do it “Carte Blanche” so why bring it up in an argument?
That to me is unethical. Don’t do something for me, JUST so you can use it against me later.
Another example is from another scenario with an exer.
I didn’t have any cash on me and needed $5. I asked him for $5 and he said he didn’t have it. I asked him what he had, and he replied, $20.
Now if I was the man, I would’ve given the $20 to begin with.
Am I wrong for thinking this way?
If I’m in a committed relationship with someone, what’s yours is mine and mine is yours!
There are no tallying and there are no keeping count of ANYTHING.
Don’t be petty. Being cheap is acceptable (kinda) but not petty!