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For the fourth time in my life.

1st time was a home invasion. 2nd time I got mugged. 3rd time was a break in into my garage and car in my home. Today was the 4th.

I walked down to the garage to go to work and I noticed my trunk wide open. We have tandem parking and since my car has been out of commission, the CC has been parked behind my Prius. I thought either Bear Baby had left it open or the bumper sitting in my back seat and truck pushed the trunk open because it was pushing against it. Doesn’t really happen that way but getting broken in was the last thing on my mind.

As I walked closer, I saw the tool pouch on the floor. I came to the trunk and checked the box I had in the back with a computer monitor and other things. The computer monitor was still there. It WAS under the bumper so they probably didn’t have time. I closed the trunk and went to the front seat. Everything was thrown around all my sunglasses and eyeglasses. I stopped touching and got out and called Bear Baby.

I didn’t want to mess anything up for the cops when they came for the police report. I’ve had this happen before so I didn’t want to tamper and get the fingerprints smudged.

Now I’m waiting for the police. My Maximus VIPRIUS is having a lot of problems recently.



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I’ve been a fucking mess the past two months.

Bitchy, irratable, losing and breaking shit, emotional, cry baby but not suicidal, thank god.

We arrived to the apartment Tuesday from Kansas and Bear Baby had more the bath mats on the shower rails because the maintenance was suppose to fix the toilet before we left. But he didn’t and Bear Baby asked the bldg not to work in our unit since we’ll be out of town.

Bath mats weren’t put back because Bear Baby didn’t put them back.

I came to the restroom took off everything to get on the scale and SPLAT! My Chanel J12 on the floor face down.

I was furious! I couldn’t believe the bezel cracked! I guess I should be glad that it’s only that and not the face!

I feel like I’m breaking down. Everything in my life is somewhat of a depiction of everything that is happening to my belongings.

I can’t break away from this bad luck and feeling like shit all the time.

Why is everything going wrong? Why are all things annoying as FUCK! Why do I have to live this crappy life now after I was given a great one?

I know life is suppose to be a roller coaster but it only happens to some of us. I don’t want to hear anyone say, “it’ll make you stronger”. Fuck that, the only thing that’s going to make me stronger are the weights at Equinox if I ever get back to working out.

Life really isn’t about rainbows and butterflies and it sickens me when all I see on social media are the misconception of people’s lives.

I want to embrace the shitty and want to share the crap that I have to deal with because that’s life. Not some perfectly positioned macaron with your un-creased magazine and your paid photographers taking a photo of you in your jammies.

Yes, I enjoy watching people (RKOBH) live tier extravagant life. They’re the only ones, they’re rich and fabulous and so goddamn funny. That’s something I can appreciate. Not the ones that live in a set that they’ve created to get noticed. Hustling? I say no but that’s my opinion.

That’s all!

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Our flight got delayed, then delayed again so we decided to do Jim.

I’m getting worse and worse. I can’t do my usual hour. Help me God. I barely did 30 minutes straight.

Doesn’t help that Aunt Flow came into town Thursday.






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Booty Shorts

I live in #bootyshorts while #doingjim.

Why? Because once you start to pay attention to your figure you can see the changes that are occurring during your workout period.

I love to see the definition in my legs at work.

I haven’t worked out since September last year and my legs have lost most of the muscle and form. I wasn’t afraid to wear shorts because I wanted to remind myself what my legs looked like when I started.

Each day I pay attention to every detail, each day I enjoy working out because I can feel the difference. (Even though it’s only been two days :P)

Don’t be scared to wear shorts, legs weren’t born pretty, unless you’re from Brazil and or a supermodel

If you can’t do the #bootyshorts, try the 5″, longer versions!

Oh and not only can you notice the difference in your legs you can also watch the progress of your bum!

Growing confidence is the best type of workout, so don’t be shy!



SOLOW Fitted Short Shorts






Women’s adidas by Stella McCartney Tennis Apparel

(i know this is for tennis, but it’s too cute, not to have!)