Many people say they’ve had an experience of that.
Does everyone? What’s normal? Does it not matter, as long as you feel that it is?
Maybe people fight in relationships because they clash but feel like that have to try to work things out. Out of human nature to want to solve issues.
How do you know you’re making the right decision or if you’ve wasted your time?
Is it enough to to keep going because the outcome of your goals are the same? Family? Happiness?