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Fw: Ur a clown, why don’t u post this too?!! Exactly..

Last of it, I promise.

Violet Kim

"I'm hard to remember, but impossible to forget"

www.violetkim.com

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From: "Violet Kim" <violetkim1@gmail.com>

Date: Sat, 18 Sep 2010 11:21:42

To: <jnatkdman@gmail.com>

Reply-To: violetkim1@gmail.com

Subject: Re: Ur a clown, why don't u post this too?!! Exactly..

Exactly what? We broke up. U thot wed get bak together and I don't want to.

Yeah I had faults and at the end of the day I didn't want to be in the relationship.

U can think whatever u want in how u think I lacked in the relationship or whatever, but I know me and I know what I want and it didn't include u.

I tried at the relationship when I could.

Yah I lied and so did u.

What's new?

Have a great life.

Violet Kim

"I'm hard to remember, but impossible to forget"

www.violetkim.com

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—–Original Message—–

From: jnatkdman@gmail.com

Date: Sat, 18 Sep 2010 09:54:49

To: <violetkim1@gmail.com>

Reply-To: jnatkdman@gmail.com

Subject: Ur a clown, why don't u post this too?!! Exactly..

What u think ur fckn blogs gonna hurt my feelings?? Why do u live ur life with so much negativity? I understand u had ur ups n downs, but who hasn't??!!! U have beautiful family who supports, n intelligent charming lil boy!
Why would I blame u to make it easier for me to move on? When I'm only venting what I felt from our experience. Why don't u fckn talk about why I didn't trust u, how many times have u LIED to me?? (I won't get in to detail) But since u were fckn great from start I didn't give a damn about ur divorce or tyler and treated him like he was mine. gave effort, till I met ur severe NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER! N ignorant of me I gave u chances after ur lies n when u got on ur knees made multiple promises.
Btw here are ur symptoms

Believing that you're better than others

Exaggerating your achievements or talents

Expecting constant praise and admiration

Believing that you're special and acting accordingly

Failing to recognize other people's emotions and feelings

Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans

Taking advantage of others
( Remember when u said "use em till u get somewhere" when I was only venting out the prob I had with my co worker!! )

Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior

Being jealous of others

Believing that others are jealous of you

Trouble keeping healthy relationships

Setting unrealistic goals

Being easily hurt and rejected

Having a fragile self-esteem

Appearing as tough-minded or unemotional

Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)

Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

Believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)

Requires excessive admiration

Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations

Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends

Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others

Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her

Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes

Yes we all got issues n no ones perfect, you're just got worse as we dated.
Yet still I TRIED to make a effort and yes cuz we fell in love. And it was just my second nature wanting to take care of u. Regardless ur own family claimed that ur crzy.
I've lived with u for whole fckn year and no body knows u better than me.
Yes it takes two to make happiness, and I'm sorry I couldn't provide ur needs, I'm not blaming everything on u, lot of times I was wrong, I'm sorry things had to end so harsh.
U said u wanted to be friends?? Yes I did emailed u often ONLY cuz I felt I needed some closure, I'm sure it was just ur way to end relationships n sure didn't know what to say Cuz I found out about another lie.
U wanted me out of the house?? Let's get things straight here, yes I stayed cuz I wanted to work things out, but remember what I said when I left irvine? Let's give one month try, n after spending a month I've realized we were not compatible. Sametime I did feel lil comfortable after building great relationship with ur family. N let's not forget, how many times did I mention moving out??! But I stayed cuz I knew u also wanted to work things out, cmon violet let's get real, we loved our times together, like any other fckn relationship we argued, laughed, n shared our moments n forget after!
Wtf n I had nothing to offer??? I'm sorry I couldn't provide ur 3k purse for ya, but I tried my best and not to brag or anything I paid for the rent n utilities every fckn month!! For our convenient! To live cross the street from tyler so we can spend lil more with ur son! And ur 5 min drive to work. Of course u cooked for me first month or two. Which I appreciated.
Look don't tell me my cock was all I offered lol, what did u offer?? Ur son?( Yes I adore him n I did try to be he's best buddy during times when were together) what else? Fed me lies and lies??
I'm sorry, I'm sorry I had to make u work at nights and I complained. I'm sorry for wanting to spend more time with u when I realized our relationship was going the wrong way. it was just my way to save the relationship.
Please don't sit there n cover ur self up and try to make me feel stupid, cuz I know what kinda person u are, I don't give a shit what others think as long as I KNOW.
I can go on and on n get into details and ur ugly side of ur body…but that's just not me.
Ur blog don't mean shit to me or to others but just a quick lil laugh. Go focus on ur son, n embrace and adore every moment. N fyi change ur ways to talk to him, don't just love him make him feel loved, take it as advice, I've been working with kids all my life.
Again I'm sorry things had to end like this, I didn't want to write another email but seeing how u are, I just had to.
I did love u, I still do care for u, I sincerely do wish u the best and best for ty.
James.

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