Is it natural to have “the talk” when you’re hanging out with someone a lot? I would think that it would be a mutual understanding, NOT to do shady shit when you’re into someone?
The talk is awkward and something I don’t want to initiate when I feel that the feelings between him and I are mutual.
Its childish, we’re not in HS and I think the MAN should ALWAYS bring it up first.
But maybe men don’t need to confirmation. I don’t know what the deal is, but I’m gonna refuse it and just do as I please.
But please, don’t try and have your cake and eat it too.
I know myself and if I have any inkling that I’m getting played, see ya later buddy. I don’t let myself get hurt.