I’m One of Those…

I’m not racist. But I do stare at interracial couples.

I stare because…
1. I am curious as to what they have in common.
2. How they met.
3. If he/she has yellow/white fever.
4. If they are truly happy.

Now that I’m dating my first non Asian man, I realize how narrow minded I’ve been.

Who am I to think that 2 people with different ethnicities can’t get along?

Or be romantic, genuinely?

I am always the one to tell people to have an open mind about EVERYTHING, yet I was judging every interracial couple I saw.

Maybe it wasn’t judgement, more so a bewilderment.

I didn’t understand it. I have Korean friends and family married to different ethnic backgrounds but never thought I would muster up the courage or be adventurous enough to date one.

I’m taking it all in. Slowly. I actually think it’s been better for me because I went into it with no expectations. Whereas before I had too high of expectations.

I find myself getting surprised by his mannerisms and behaviors because I didn’t think non Asians knew how to be THAT way.

Either way, now I’m one of those.

I swear the times that we’ve been out, people have been staring at us and now I know what they are thinking.

They are thinking the same thing I used to think.

“Oh, she has white fever” And we all know that is NOT the case with me.

Everything is different and I love everything about it!


One response

  1. Forget what others think luv! If we were so concerned what others thought of us we’d never leave our haus. Besides if you’re having a good time with that cute boy who cares what race he is just as long as he treats you like a princess and is kind and decent.

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