Have you read, “Five Love Languages”?
I’ve read it and I have the urge to read it again, but I read it so thoroughly the first time, I’d feel like I’m wasting my time.
I know what my love languages are.
My problem is, I can’t decipher the fact that what I want may not be what the other person wants.
I have an issue. An issue with wanting to spend money.
I just want to buy things, and not for me (that’s the crazy part) but for everyone I love.
I know love isn’t measured by monetary things, but I was raised in a home where that was love.
It’s not right or wrong but a matter of circumstances and the combination of the love language.
I love giving gifts and providing, but I know I should really learn to control the behavior.
Love is not expressed by how I want to express it. Expressing love is by showing them how they want to be loved.