#MustHave @Nike #AirVaporMax

You know I’m a sucker for anything purple Violet.
My dear husband in New York set his calendar to get me the new release of the Nike Air VaporMax sneakers in Violet!!! They come in the pale and true Violet,
I got the true Violet.

Nike Sportswear Wmns Air Vapormax Flyknit



#HowtobeaMAN pt. 2

Twice in one week… When you insist on having your wife take your car, please have the tank filled so she doesn’t have to go through the trouble of stopping by a gas station. After the tire incident this made me so furious again, in the am on my way to the office. In the am, I said I was going to take Maximus. He should’ve just let me take the Prius since I just filled up the tank the day before! He was super insistent on me taking Betty White. As soon as I got in the car, I freaking had fire coming out of my ears. Seriously. I hate things like this… and he knows it. I hope I got mad enough at him for him to remember never to do it again. 😛

Why I get annoyed… #howtobeaMAN pt.1

So, we landed at LAX and when we got in our car, the tire light was on. That evening, we got home around 12:30am and had to go to the office the next day. That week, I needed to take Maximus because I was driving to Calabasas. When I got in my car, I was immediately annoyed. My husband, the “man” of the house should have taken car of this knowing that I was taking the car that week. He had a day or two to check on it. I mean… isn’t this why I got married? So I don’t have to do these things myself? Especially if he’s the last one that drove it?

Debt Free!

With my promotion beginning of the year and being able to consolidate my finances, I feel a sudden sense of relief! All my credit cards are paid off, thanks to the loan consolidation option and most of my bills are automatically debited from my cash rewards credit card. Some bills don’t allow you to pay with a credit card so it’s debiting from my bank account, but it’s okay.

Now I don’t have to worry about bills going out on random days of the month. It’s minimized to one credit card date and I have more money in my bank account than I’ve ever had before. 😛

The tax returns definitely helped a lot. I got around $4,500 back for 2015 and probably will be my last since I’ll have to file married for 2016.

I never knew how amazing this feeling would be. Knowing exactly where my money is going is benefiting my determination to save. I don’t want to go out and spend money because I’d rather have the extra $1,000/month to save for something bigger! (We’re suppose to be saving for a house, but I’m eyeing a new Chanel bag!)

I have the Chase Sapphire that Bear got me under his account. I use that to make personal purchases throughout the month to collect points. Dining out, drinking, nails, lashes, gas and everything else.

I really don’t like NOT having a limit since I will spend every dollar I have but a month has passed and I only spent about $350 in February. I pack food to work so I don’t need to spend money on lunch and I try not to go out so that diminishes too. I started to workout in the ams so by the time I’m off work, I’m too tired to go do anything fun. If I do want to go out to eat, I just take Bear with me so he can pay! Helps us spend more time together too, which he loves! He’s my sugar daddy. LOL 😀

I look forward to paying off the loan consolidation and having money in my savings. Also, Bear is turning 30 this year and my mom is turning 60 in January of 2017. I really need to save money to get them something amazing for their birthdays. (Great, now Bear will hold me to it.) 😛

Valentine’s Day List

MZ Wallace ‘Metro’ Quilted Oxford Nylon Backpack – Black

Annick Goutal Petite Cherie Candle

FAURE LE PAGE Small Gun Pochette/Wristlet


Secura Nano Ionic NanoCare Facial Steamer

Dermal Korea Collagen Essence Full Face Facial Mask Sheet 16 Combo Pack

UV Total Recovery Shoe Sanitizer

Bear asked and I shut him down @herschelsupply

He had a Christmas list for me and I didn’t get one thing on the list. I refuse to be in public with a man in a football jersey and with Jordan Retro 11 on his feet.

This backpack was in the list and I thought about it since I hate his backpack now but I kind of want it for myself… 😛

Herschel Supply Co. Pop Quiz Backpack, Woodland Camo/Zip, One Size


#MillCreekRifleClub @HenryRifles

Tyler’s first shooting experience and the best he’ll ever get! We shot a .22 caliber, Henry Octagon Frontier. My favorite out of the Henry Rifles was the Golden Boy. Aside from it being gold, I like that my FIL kept the eyesight old fashioned. There was no scope and it wasn’t the original, it was an upgrade from the standard one but better.

And yes, I was shooting in fur and leather. Faux leather. Real fur. 😛

@FrankSinatra’s 100th Birthday Concert

I love Frank Sinatra and I was so bummed that I did NOT make it to the Hollywood Bowl this summer for his 100th birthday celebration. BUT… Bear got me tickets to the event on his actual 100th birthday on December 12th!!!

Even though I was a little bummed that it wasn’t a pair of Manolo pumps or a Chanel/Hermes accessory, I am so thankful to have gotten this gift.

I love standards and I love the 50’s and 60’s. This is something I will never forget and I cannot wait!!! He got me the best seats, right in the center, 8 rows back or whatever in orchestra section!!! WOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!


How To Be A Man… WOW #MustHave

A friend just got engaged and she got this beautiful 3.5 carat Emerald Cut Solitaire Engagement Ring!!!

I always loved emerald cuts but just like this ring, it had to be larger than a 3 carat. She did well!!

Look how beautiful it looks on my hand.


Wedding Day

Photographs by the talented @MichelleKimPhoto!

We rented a shuttle since most of the people were from out of town. We met at our apartment in DTLA and shuttled everyone to El Matador Beach in Malibu for our private ceremony.


#SelfieStick came in handy!


I, of course, had to get into my Nike Internationalist in Silver to hike down the mountain.









IMG_2880The weather was gloomy but apparently it works best in photos so I wasn’t too mad. Well, except that I had my hair blowing everywhere and ruining photos!

I was freezing and was glad I brought my Yves Salomon Raccoon Fur coat (similar)
to stay warm.

We then headed to Moonshadows in Malibu for brunch before heading to the hotel for our reception.

Everyone took a nap… 😛





I cried my eyes out… most of the people shed a tear… I must say, my vows were pretty amazing.

I felt so nervous about reading it and it took about a minute of me laughing and hesitating before I started but once I got going, I couldn’t stop tearing.

I’ll read my vows one day and make a video… so you can all enjoy!

#GirlsNightOut # PreuxandProper #DTLA

We started with the punch bowl and then headed to The Continental Club.

We were having a great night until the rude loser bartender at #ContinentalClub gave me attitude when I asked for more ice in my vodka on the rocks. I’m sorry you guys serve two ice cubes with on the rocks drinks and my vodka was room temperature. I just wanted more ice and a few more limes. Is that too hard? He lied about their lime concentrate and said they were freshly squeezed when I asked. He then grabs a handfull of lime with his grubby hands and puts his hands out with his fist facing the bar top as if I would reach out my hand to receive it. Um, fucking get a napkin and place it on there OR put it in a cup.

So I just waited a minute. Literally, a minute. He still just stood there, he obviously hated his job. I grabbed a napkin and placed it under his hand on the bar top. He opened his hands and the limes fell on the napkin and a bit everywhere and he walked away.

I immediately asked for his name from the kind bartender that was helping us previously. I would have asked him but he was busy and his the overgrown body and disgusting facial hair was just standing there.

Dear Continental Club,

I get that I’m just a measily singular person who loves your club, but to have such bad service on a slow night? That’s just undeserving. Please talk to your guy. His name is Eric or however he spells it.



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Thank You Bear! @Chanel

I was in dire need of a new wallet.

This is an overdue gift for passing my RE exam!!!

There was a much cheaper wallet I was eyeing at Barney’s from Valextra that he could’ve saved money on but I’m happy about this!!! 

Love my new wallet!

I believe that now that I’m older, I like zipper wallets! 😛