I ended up not getting either. I was over my budget so Bear cut me off. Had I known I wasn’t even able to buy one pair, I wouldn’t have spent so much time in the store trying it on! Next time Bear, let me know ahead of time.

I wanted both. It was Buy One Get the 2nd 40% off! They are both on sale for $273!!!

Stuart Weitzman Alterego Silver
Stuart Weitzman Alterego Blush


Morning @Starbucks

I don’t know why Starbucks can’t set something up on their system to signify how many pumps of the sugared crap they need to pump into the drink. I always and only ask for one. I specify. 70% of the time I order, I get the full amount of pumps. In my triple espresso over ice, I only want one, actually half, but they couldn’t get it right so I just resorted to one. Can you imagine how sweet my drink it with only three shots? I hate it. I can tell immediately by the color. They also sometimes put too much soy milk. It’s should be a the color of a Lindt milk chocolate ball. #duh!


Best moisturizer. I know some people associate this brand with black people but I’m not black and I swear by this product.

I don’t mind smelling like chocolate all day. ­čśŤ It hydrates my skin super well and I don’t have to worry about certain areas being re-applied.

What I find weird is that Bear Baby NEVER uses lotion and he never needs it. My skin gets dry and I have to use lotion when I get out of the shower. Is it just me or do most people need it? I’ve seen most friends and family use lotion on their bodies.

I’m also a stickler for using things til they’re completely gone. Like, to the point that I can’t squeeze anything else out or reach my finger in and get anything. Toothpaste, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, hand soap, basically anything that comes in a container.

I’ve been using the old one by having it sit upside down. It’ll last for another two months.

Am I being a #BOB or not being wasteful? I believe we learn habits from our household growing up and my mom used to do this.

We weren’t poor so I know she wasn’t being cheap. But maybe… because she grew up poor in South Korea, she learned to not be wasteful?

Cocoa Butter Daily Body Lotion




don’t be wasteful

Cheaper the Better #MustHave

Man, if I decide to do this whole no shopping thing for a year… I’m gonna go a bit crazy I think.

There are always so many things to buy!

I’m particularly in love with this.

I’ve come to a realization that I can no longer purchase expensive shoes without feeling so guilty that I want to commit suicide.

Being broke is depressing and being broker than all my friends is even worse.

(Broke meaning, I can’t buy Prada, Valentino… name brand shit)

I’ve also learned that if I never went out partying in my name brand shit, I would still have them to wear.

My problem was, I got too drunk and I messed them up so much that I couldn’t even repair them.

Note to self: Buy cheap shoes to go out in and thrash and keep the nice shit for dinners and date nights.

Who’s looking at my feet anyway when we’re all shit faced!



Now, I’ve never owned a pair of Nine West shoes. How’s the sizing?